Hi, my husband has now lost over 14 pounds in weight in the past 6 months has a positive babinski and has fasciculations in his head arms legs etc, twitches and jumps all night in his sleep, the neurologist saw him in march and said that he could not find anything wrong with him as his cognitive score was 29 out of 30. my husband lied about his aches and spasms told the doctor he was fit and well and it was all my doing why he was there. after 4 months off work they have now allowed him back to work! He has had a dramatic personality change is agitated and tired all the time, he constantly drops things bangs cups etc and is always breaking something , he goes to the shop and forgets what he has gone for, he slurs looks drunk after 1 drink and cannot remember names of objects he even forgot his childrens birth dates, he blames me for everything saying i want him to be ill, because i have lupus, my Gp has listened to me and has now refered him back to the neurologist saying its possible he has some kind of progressive motor neuron disease. they diagnoised him with COPD but all other tests are normal, what can i do now he gets worse everyday but the twitches are subtle,I have feared right from the onset it was a possible ALS, what other diseases can cause these symptoms? and what can i do to convince him its not me, its his body that does all these things he is so in denial and thinks he is fighting fit , family and friends are also concerned because of his behavior and loss of skill playing snooker etc, please help do not know what to do1! thanks princessbeverley