rcharlton
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- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 11/2005
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- CA
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- Ontario
- City
- Toronto
My ancestors originally settled in a town called Newmarket which is in Ontario north of Toronto.
The ancestral homestead was a farm. The farm had been sold and had not been in the family for almost a century.
My great Aunt Beryl was the the only relative who continued to live in Newmarket. Every summer, even into her nineties, Aunt Beryl would call me up and get me to drive her over to the farm to pick rhubarb. I guess this was our ancestral rhubarb patch.
I just assumed that the current owners of the farm had expressly invited my Aunt over to pick the ancestral rhubarb. I also assumed that my Aunt had inquired as to the best time to drop by to minimize inconvenience to the owners.
However, every time we descended upon the farm to pick the rhubarb, it always seemed like the most inopportune moment for the owners - in the middle of dinner or just as they were heading out. And they never seemed happy to see us.
One time we interrupted some big celebration. The festivities came to an abrupt halt as a 91 year crusty old bird and her pimply faced nephew cut a swathe through the crowd as we headed to the rhubarb patch at the back of the farm. They stared at us as if we were aliens.
And Aunt Beryl had no qualms about picking all the best rhubarb stalks for herself and tossing the bad ones aside - all while the owners looked on.
When my Aunt passed away, the owners of the farm attended the funeral. I greeted them and thanked them for inviting Aunt Beryl to pick rhubarb every year. I told them how much it meant to her. I was shocked when they advised: "Oh - we never invited her - she just showed up every year".
So apparently my Aunt and I had been trespassing all those years. I guess my Aunt figured that since her ancestors had planted the rhubarb she had a right in perpetuity to pick it.
I'm surprised that they never called the police on us - or at least pest control. "Officer - there's a ninety year old woman attacking our rhubarb."
The ancestral homestead was a farm. The farm had been sold and had not been in the family for almost a century.
My great Aunt Beryl was the the only relative who continued to live in Newmarket. Every summer, even into her nineties, Aunt Beryl would call me up and get me to drive her over to the farm to pick rhubarb. I guess this was our ancestral rhubarb patch.
I just assumed that the current owners of the farm had expressly invited my Aunt over to pick the ancestral rhubarb. I also assumed that my Aunt had inquired as to the best time to drop by to minimize inconvenience to the owners.
However, every time we descended upon the farm to pick the rhubarb, it always seemed like the most inopportune moment for the owners - in the middle of dinner or just as they were heading out. And they never seemed happy to see us.
One time we interrupted some big celebration. The festivities came to an abrupt halt as a 91 year crusty old bird and her pimply faced nephew cut a swathe through the crowd as we headed to the rhubarb patch at the back of the farm. They stared at us as if we were aliens.
And Aunt Beryl had no qualms about picking all the best rhubarb stalks for herself and tossing the bad ones aside - all while the owners looked on.
When my Aunt passed away, the owners of the farm attended the funeral. I greeted them and thanked them for inviting Aunt Beryl to pick rhubarb every year. I told them how much it meant to her. I was shocked when they advised: "Oh - we never invited her - she just showed up every year".
So apparently my Aunt and I had been trespassing all those years. I guess my Aunt figured that since her ancestors had planted the rhubarb she had a right in perpetuity to pick it.
I'm surprised that they never called the police on us - or at least pest control. "Officer - there's a ninety year old woman attacking our rhubarb."