lou,
my thoughts are with you, you do have something, that is for sure. IT is hard having all these symptoms.
It makes all the difference if a doctor would say 'you have something, it may not be als..but its something and we need to look further'. It is a lonley feeling with the family if they think you are fine. WHen I stopped talking to them about it and insisting I was ill, they now ask me how I am doing. It is not that our famlies dont believe us, they just dont want to think that anything is wrong with who they love. So, when the doc says they dont see anything, they NEED to believe it. We know our bodies are not gettin better but it is a no win thing with all. Try not to think in the future, I know this hard. I feel like I live with a dark cloud over me and all that I do. I get it, but find the joy in TODAY. I will enjoy my day and then in bed at night when I am scared or feeling sad about the future and my kids, I cry. I let it out alone away from my family, I need that release. Then I wake up and smile and enjoy what I can do today, then cry at night. YOu get the picture. It works for me. This has made me better, I dont post pone things and I want to be the best mom and wife and friend and sister and daughter while I am here and appreciate my life. this has scared me into not taking my life for granted and I dont want 5 yrs from now if I am sick to wish I would have enjoyed this time when I can do things! Plus, I want people to think and remeber me for being strong and not some sad and depressed person. GIVE in to this, accept it and move on. we cant be happy untill we accept that this has happen, we cant do some things we love but we can wrap our arms around our family..you will hold your new baby and we can speak to tell our family we love them. we cant control what happens, the only thing we control is how we handle it
take care