ARCG
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Oct 12, 2016
- Messages
- 218
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 1/2015
- Country
- US
- State
- TX
- City
- Houston
Crystal,
The breaking point for us came when my husband was transferring, leaning on me and fell, he was fine but I ended up in the hospital with stitches. He started agreeing to use the lift after that.
Its so hard being caregiver and wife, know that you are doing the best you possibly can in an impossible situation and after that fall I began telling my husband I was going to make an ‘executive’ decision when he resisted care that I knew was in his (our) best interest.
His anger was really directed at the disease, but when I was the one doing my best to care for him, it was hard to think of it that way. I hope you can get additional help, soon.
Annie
The breaking point for us came when my husband was transferring, leaning on me and fell, he was fine but I ended up in the hospital with stitches. He started agreeing to use the lift after that.
Its so hard being caregiver and wife, know that you are doing the best you possibly can in an impossible situation and after that fall I began telling my husband I was going to make an ‘executive’ decision when he resisted care that I knew was in his (our) best interest.
His anger was really directed at the disease, but when I was the one doing my best to care for him, it was hard to think of it that way. I hope you can get additional help, soon.
Annie