Pain in the butt for me too. I've switched to running pants and running shorts too. It is what it is. I ordered this gadget on the internet called a "dressing stick". It's about 18 inches long with a simple hook on one end and two other types of claw type hooks on the other end. Totally worthless. The diameter of the stick is maybe an inch. I can't grasp it with enough force to use it.
I did buy a 24 inch shoe horn that is great. Just wish there was a way to grab the tongue on my tennis shoes because they inevitably slide down when I put them on. So, once again I mostly wear slip ons now unless my wife is there to help me with my tennis shoes. Every once and a while I'd like to dress normal. A pair of jeans, a button down Oxford shirt and my Nikes. Adapt, adapt, adapt. Screw it.
Vince