Hevnw8s
Member
- Joined
- Mar 1, 2014
- Messages
- 17
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Country
- US
- State
- AZ
- City
- Phoenix
Hello everyone.
I am very thankful for this forum. I read a lot of threads here but never post. I'm not sure why I come here, I guess I try to keep my mom fresh in my mind...I don't ever want to forget a thing about her. I cared for her until she passed way in 2010. She was my best friend and the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. I miss her so much. Sometimes I start to forget the sound of her voice and it scares me. My heart aches that she's gone but at the same time I'm thankful she's not suffering anymore.
My mom had Bulbar ALS. The doctors told me I would lose her in a year and a half. I lost her in 6 months. Doctors said that was the fastest they had ever seen some one die.
I have a question for those who lost someone. Do any of you have regrets about the way you cared for your loved one and wish you could go back and do it over? I see all of these families doing all these wonderful things together but I worked full time and tried to care for her the best I could. I wish I had her back to do it over again. She wouldn't be scared and she would feel more loved than anyone in the world. I don't know how to let this hurt and regret go. Anyone have any advice?
Thank you for listening. I pray for each one of you here and your loved ones.
Kim
I am very thankful for this forum. I read a lot of threads here but never post. I'm not sure why I come here, I guess I try to keep my mom fresh in my mind...I don't ever want to forget a thing about her. I cared for her until she passed way in 2010. She was my best friend and the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. I miss her so much. Sometimes I start to forget the sound of her voice and it scares me. My heart aches that she's gone but at the same time I'm thankful she's not suffering anymore.
My mom had Bulbar ALS. The doctors told me I would lose her in a year and a half. I lost her in 6 months. Doctors said that was the fastest they had ever seen some one die.
I have a question for those who lost someone. Do any of you have regrets about the way you cared for your loved one and wish you could go back and do it over? I see all of these families doing all these wonderful things together but I worked full time and tried to care for her the best I could. I wish I had her back to do it over again. She wouldn't be scared and she would feel more loved than anyone in the world. I don't know how to let this hurt and regret go. Anyone have any advice?
Thank you for listening. I pray for each one of you here and your loved ones.
Kim