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    Moving forward

    Well an incident happened this week at work, that is giving me a big picture of some of the s*it that’s been going on. It will be addressed on Monday. Much to the chagrin I’m sure of the perpetrator. Have cleaning and what not to do today. And boiling water due to a water main break. Have a...
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    The Next Part of the Journey

    Congrats on the new job. I hope you love it! Is it near your current home? Yes, taking a year off would make going back to work much harder. I have found that quite difficult, even though I was working from home, going into the office is a huge change. However, my situation is a bit...
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    The Next Part of the Journey

    There is no easy way around this. As someone who was able to work at first and then was a full-time CALS, in my case, being the full-time CALS for me was more difficult. I had zero distractions from what was happening. However others may feel differently.
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    The Next Part of the Journey

    Lenore, I tend to agree with you that reality starting smacking us around the day our DH’s were DX. I’m just shortly a head of you. Nearing 10mo out. I can say it comes in waves. I will do OK for a bit and then get smacked down again. So I have no idea what year 2 will bring. Saying that...
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    Moving forward

    Been a bit better week thus far. Good therapy session on Tuesday. And been back on my Zoloft. We will see where it goes from here. Hugs all
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    Moving forward

    Spent some time talking with my neighbor last night. Going over some of the stuff I’m feeling. The need for a break etc. Trying to figure out how I can get it. It needs to be a long break though. I don’t think a week will do it. We will see. Hugs all
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    Moving forward

    Thank you both. I did restart my Zoloft last night. We will see where that takes me. However, I never feel good being on any kind of med, so not sure how long I will stick with it. And the other side of it is, while I was on it, I don’t think I was dealing with the grief at all. Not sure...
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    The Next Part of the Journey

    We are all coping, as best we can. We do what we can to move forward, teeny tiny baby steps at a time, and then fall back by a giant leap sometimes. Looking at houses online today. May go check 2 of them out that are open today, not sure. I’ve stayed away from work stuff this weekend...
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    Moving forward

    Yes, I find cooking hard and it was something I always enjoyed. I will be cooking today for my DD and her GF’s and that I will probably enjoy. Making others feel good. It’s been a very rough week with lots of tears. I think I’m finally getting time to do some processing. It’s been a hell of...
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    The Next Part of the Journey

    Lenore by any account I think you are doing well. I also the believe the break from work and responsibilities did you good. My therapist and I were talking about how I need a break. Owning a business just doesn’t allow for that. It should, but since we are very small and I do the payroll and...
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