Wow, it does remind me a lot of how Chris was. Definite on something and harsh about it one day, then saying something different another day. He would say - you think you know where you draw the line, but the closer you get to it the easier it is to move it again. I just think it is so sad when they won't be proactive and put things in place early, rather than refuse and then panic at the last minute and change minds xxx Just don't let yourself feel at all responsible for his choices even when they are poor ones.