Tillie,
Thank you for your comforting words! Dad was not able to walk anymore....his decline from one month in the hospital was sudden. But you are correct, this is a cruel disease. I always say he was given a death sentence. Had it been some other illness, at least we could have fought.
I pray, I cry. As my short time I realized how hideous this disease is. My dad showed signs of swallowing difficulty or inability to cough or sneeze at full force.....and even then for me was unbearable. But for you, you deal with this everyday. I hope you have support, one that is helpful and trustworthy. Your PALS seems to be keeping his chin up when dealing with these issues. He appreciates your caring for him. May the promise of Spring bring better days.