Hi Greg,
Very sorry you find youself here.
I know exactly what you and your family is thinking. It's overwhelming.
I was diagnosed 09/2011, I had just turned 40, married with 2 kids.
I started rilutek in May, and my personal opinion is, it helps. I find my breathing better, swallowing better. But just my opinion.
I believe a few important things have kept me in the game:
1) Surround yourself with only positive people (including yourself)
2) Take the recommended vitamins (last thing you want is a cold or flu on top of this - I can give you a list of what I take if you want)
3) Never give up hope, there is a ton of very promising research being done.
I'm not really on the forms much anymore, as there are some Facebook ALS groups that I find to be a bit easier to navigate through.
Find me if you like on FB. Casey Garrah.
Hang in there.
Cheers,
Casey