Hi. I just responded to your thread about the SAH grant. Don't hesitate to contact me if you have any more questions. Scanning your visitor messages, sounds like I faced some of the challenges your wife will. My husband was 6'1 and a big guy. I am 5'3" and not so big. If you have any questions about equipment, I can honestly say that we had everything we needed and exactly what we needed from the VA. The guys on the forum really helped me navigate the system and get the right stuff the first time. Quick background - my husband was a Captain in the Air Force in the early 80's after he graduated from UT. We are originally from Memphis and back here now, but we lived in Europe, Texas and California when he was in the wine business.