Starting your own threads can be helpful for getting info/advice/support, about your individual situation. You can find answers to almost anything regarding ALS here. Go to the main page (ALS/MND Support Group Forums), choose one you'd like to start a thread on i.e. Current Caregivers (CALS). Click on that forum heading. Above the list on that page, upper left, is a "New Thread" button. Click on it. A window will appear. Choose a title, then use the space to explain your situation, ask for advice, etc... You are fortunate to have friends that you can talk to when you need to vent, but will most likely need more help as your husband progresses. I understand how you feel about caring for your husband by yourself, but it can become extremely difficult. Try to be a step ahead of the changes that will be coming, so they don't sneak up on you and become overwhelming. Feel free to contact me if you have more questions.
Laura
Laura