Helen,
thank you for your message. I am new to this and not sure how to see messages I get. I just happened to click on the User CP and it showed numerous messages. I didn't even know I had them. It's nice knowing there are people out there who care about me. I've never, ever sought out help for anything in my life, including these support groups online nor any type of online posting. I am a very independent person and like to have things in my control. However, I know with working a full time job (which I cannot afford to quit) and caring for my husband I may have to get some help. right now it's manageable. I get up very early in the a.m. so that I can feed him, get him dressed, and ready for the day before I leave for work. I feed him when I get home and do some exercises with his arms to keep his range of motion. Do you care for you spouse or another family member? what kind of help do you have and any suggestions are appreciated. thank you, Marilyn.