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Who, if anyone, do you live with? I have friends hoist me out of bed, to the toilet and then my power chair, help me wash up, get coffee poured, etc. when my husband, Phil, is gone to work. I am alone still for hours at a time, but I've always been a project sort of person, content to be alone much of the time. That's a long subject, but do tell anyone who volunteers, what they can do to help you. They may surprise you in what they want to do-- and it makes them feel good to be helpful. This is 3 messages, at a limit of 1,000 strokes, btw. I open another forum page and then cut and paste. I'm off to nap. Hugs! Ann