Hi Jellycat and Kiwigirl. Yes I find it upsetting too reading the posts, then tend to stay away for a few days. I dont know any of her friends where she lives, and its only up to her husband to keep me posted. He has been mentioning she is very down. Either no energy for anything, or depression, and who could blame her. This of course is upsetting him, she refuses to leave the house for anything other than grocery shopping. Hope to visit next weekend, yah. thanks so much for your support. Take Care lovely people.