I'm going to crack! My husband has ALS and feel like we are treating him badly. I work full time. Granted when I get home I'm stressed. Get dinner started, do laundry, do the mail blah blah. All he is interested in is is what I haven't done. "Did you water the pots (all 15 of them). He mumbles that he has to ask the same questions every day with the same answers. I say "no, not yet". He wants his needs to take priority over everything else. He had the nerve to tell someone that I walked right over his cane when it fell on the floor. I'M GOING TO SCREAM. NO, I DIDN'T DROP WHAT I WAS DOING AND GO OVER TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE TABLE AND PICK IT UP THAT INSTANT. IT'S NOT LIKE HE NEEDED IT TO GET UP. In about five minutes later I picked it up. He tells people, I walked right over the cane and ignored it. I'm doubting every thing I do. He wants to believe the worst about us. I'm told, I should just hug him and tell him I love him. How do you do that to someone who makes you feel like s___.