Oh - I think you can't send private message just yet. I believe forum rules are such that you will be allowed to do it after you have done 15 posts - or something like that. (I'm a newbie too).
Typically, there is a drop down under "send message" and you can choose private - since this message will be seen on your profile by others visiting - someone may be able to provide options for you regarding messaging. I'll check FAQ section in the meantime.
Thank you so much. I have told her I found this forum, she would love to hear from you. Her naem is Christina Goodreau (she also goes by Chris), 5034 County Road 550, Marquette, Michigan 49855. You can tell her I met you here on this forum. ... I am very grateful, thank you so much! Tina