Hi, You are not posting the right way. To start a thread go to visit the forums, then the forum you want to start a thread on(such as General discussion, or the Caregiver forum) and in the upper left corner there is a box, New Thread that you click on. If you can not figure it out, click on my name, and write me a visitor message. I happened on your visitor page, as I check out new members occasionally to welcome them. I made the same mistake too, and it took me a long tome to figure everything out.