Recent content by Santa joe

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    5 months in...

    Hi Barbie, haven't been on the forum for so long and decided to take a peek today. Glad you are doing ok. I like you grieved for almost 3 years before Santa Joe found freedom. The tears are not very often......a profound peace is what I feel now. Debbie
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    My dad passed away yesterday.

    Sending you my sincere condolences. Debbie
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    Merrry Christmas memories and abiding faith

    Thank you so much Phil. Debbie
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    Merry Christmas

    Merry Christmas everyone! Debbie
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    Aussie xmas has started

    Tillie and Donna, it's not the same for us this year. Thinking of you both as we go on with our lives without our loved ones. Tillie, your menu sounds great. Debbie Debbie
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    Thanks Kim. Trying hard to be strong..... Debbie

    Thanks Kim. Trying hard to be strong..... Debbie
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    Not doing good

    Sissy I was thinking about you. I am so sorry. Thinking of you and holding your hand as you approach the end of your journey. I know what you are going thru and we are all here for you. Debbie
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    ahhh Christmas

    As you might imagine, this was Santa Joe's favorite time of the year. Here at Disney world with my oldest son and his family. Crying. Not in front of the granddaughters - don't want to ruin this o them. I would rather spend Christmas in bed holding a t shirt of his and crying but I now that...
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    Rough day

    That was the way Joe was. I can only imagine what was going thru his mind..........hugs to you. I know how difficult this is for you but know there is nothing you can do but it doesn't make it any easier. Debbie
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    I love to write

    Awesome Patrick! Debbie
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    where is MAX

    Take it easy Max - glad to see you back. Debbie
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    Thanks Kim. Christmas is going to be Tough this year without my Santa Joe. Debbie

    Thanks Kim. Christmas is going to be Tough this year without my Santa Joe. Debbie
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    When to tell a grandchild?

    Knowing that he would not see his grandchildren grow up brought Santa Joe so much sadness. He would cry after each visit with them. I left the explaining up to their parents. They never brought up his dying to me but I knew that was explained to them. Debbie
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    Just got back from clinic

    None of us have a crystal ball - just live day by day. Make the most out of your life for as long as you can. Debbie
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    CALS-what to do along this journey

    I've always been a planner and organized. When I met with the liaison from the funeral home, she was amazed I was on top of everything. I had to be....... I had pre-planned his funeral arrangements a year before he passed. Had all financial papers in a folder. I can't begin to tell you what...