Hi Pam, how are you doing? Rich and I are on are way home. It has been a nice quiet time . I have thought about you . I would think keeping busy does help. I am encouraging Rich to get involve in different things,now. A horse club that meets once a month. He workis part time af a great western shop,and loves it. He asked me about not working ?? I said no way. I am fine right now and I want him to keep busy with the things he enjoys...I hope your days will become less sad for you. I know the children help... Take care and please keep in touch? Hugs, Linda