Natasha, You are SOUL BRAVE! If you want to reply to a visitor message you just click on the name of the person that wrote on your wall and you will go to their wall and then they will see that you left a message. :] I only came over to see if you had posted anything new and I will be the first of many new friends for you on this forum! As soon as you have made your mandatory number of posts [think it is around 20] you will then be able to send private messages and add photos. You can post a avatar [profile photo] so you aren't a ?-just go to your control panel. We are all a work in progress!! Sending you moments of grace, courage and bliss today. Kay Marie