Dear NMarron,
Do you have a support system, if not start to build that as you already need it. Reach out to MDA/ALS chapter(s) in your area to see what help they can be to you. They usually have loaner closets full of stuff and are happy to let you use it. When you feel the time is right, search out caregivers and don't feel you need to use a service, I hired all mine off of craigslist (just more fun).
I'm happy to help you in any way I can. God loves you.
Fight On,
Shane the Pain