Hey there - I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I am a caregiver for my husband who has been diagnosed. I can sympathize with a lot of what you are feeling. I also live in Roseville. If you ever want to get together for coffee to rant and rave, I am more than happy to.
If I had one word of advice for you, it would be to not put off anything. One of the things that my husband and I have done is to make sure that we have talked and visited and shared with everyone.
Know that you are not alone and that you have friends near and far who are here to support you.
Love and light