Family- we all have issues. No wonder you are angry. Your sister doesn't have to deal with this on a day to day basis. I wish I could talk to her. Your life is just as important as hers. Don't let my Mama claws come out. You could be my daughter. You know I have learned so much on this journey. After reading stories of the young CALS, I am going to check into long term care insurance. I don't want my boys to have to go through what you are going through. Your mother raised a wonderful daughter and if she could speak I'm sure she would tell you that so I will for her...........