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    Nearing end?

    Thank you so much. Sad and beautiful conclusion to the end of a horrid disease.
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    Nearing end?

    Thank you. I have felt everyone in this forum supportive and I do feel peace.
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    Nearing end?

    Eilleen.... Whatever you did or didn't do I can't think of anything more selfless and beautiful than what you did. The helplessness of the unknown was alleviated by your presence. Michele's passing was very moving.
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    Nearing end?

    My cousins wife (veteran RN)and another cousin are at my sisters now helping my brother in law with Michele's "transition". She is officially getting hospice care and after a difficult week of painful spasms, horrible anxiety and air hunger...she is resting comfortably . Even though I know she...
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    Nearing end?

    Thank you so much for your compassion. Im finding the responses I get extremely helpful during this difficult time
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    Nearing end?

    Thank you for your response. We talked about some options this week and I think BIL has some people he will call. It's such a hard thing because he is her main "lifter n chief" and she knows its hard on him yet he resents being criticized for not moving quick enough. I love my sister but I...
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    Nearing end?

    My sister is completely paralyzed now except for eyes and still able to smile beautifully. She indicated to me she could feel the CO2 building up in her body despite ventilator use (bipap). She thinks the end is near and wanted to discuss some affairs issues. She wants hospice but her husband is...
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    Fast progression

    Thank you all for your empathy and advise. Google Joan Halifax. Going to get her book. Nice to know we're never all alone.
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    Fast progression

    My PAL (sister) has had rapid ALS. Diagnosed Sept 11 last year she could walk with cane to the past few months has progressed to unable to speak, eat (PEG) or move at all. I wish we'd had time to adjust. I can see and feel she is near the end. At 58 and at the height of her career and looking...
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    Decline after peg surgery

    Please....I need some response. I've gone from having a sister and trying to make sure all ducks were in a row with ALS. The best equipment etc.. to feeling completely slain by this demon who has left her motionless. I was just bragging a few weeks ago how I knew what she was saying. Now none...
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    Decline after peg surgery

    My sister has had a fairly fast progressing ALS having been formally diagnosed Sept 2019. Limb onset has given way to inability to speak intelligibly at all and just had a PEG placed this past week due to very poor swallowing, dehydration and weight loss. My concern is her distress and...
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    How do you all feel ?

    <quoted text removed> Totally understand. My sister went from limping to full power chair in 6 months. She can't manipulate her phone to text me. I go over to their place Mon and thurs to help and give my brother in law a break from bathing, feeding, dressing and we watch Tv and sit in the sun...
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    Nearly One Year

    My sister was diagnosed this past Sept. It is so sad to think my little sister will pass prematurely. This forum helps me realize I will get through this. Thank you for sharing a little of the grief. All of it is helping me process.
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    please help

    This thread was informative. I'm fairly new to posting. My sister is th Pal and it is the spacticity that causes so much pain. Moving, stretching and tramadol are all that helps. Benzos too
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    note of thanks to forum supporters/moderators

    I am not very tech savvy but just reading these forums has helped me feel less alone as my dear younger sister is struggling with MND/ALS. Thank you all.
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