Hi Jake. I'm very new to all this...not even sure you will get this. Faith is what is getting me and my family through. My very first counsellor, also a Christian, said to me "God gives every cloud a silver lining." My husband, kids and I are finding those silver linings everywhere. Have to look hard sometimes, but they are there. Finding your post was a silver lining.
Many blessings to you and your wife, Janelle