Hi
just saw your message..I dont want to sound like im complaining but this is hard and so frustrating for me.There are so many ways that i can improve my husbands quality of life but he wont let me and wwe are both suffering..I have been on a loveseat(not a couch) since may because he sleeps in the den in a recliner..I have a hopital bed in the garage ,as well as a wheelchair and hoyer and he wont hear of it..he hasnt left this room since august...i think there are menatal issuses but he wont go back to clinic..he doesnt want to hear any more bad news..for us i belive ther are berathing issue as I am up every hour most nights to open window,turn off heat suction..etc..he needs mophine for pain and ativan for anxiety but wont take either..is about 80 % paralysed,cant speak..eating is scary and he has aspiration every time he drinks,,,he cant swallow his own saliva and chokes often,,,got to run he needs me ..more taker
debbie
just saw your message..I dont want to sound like im complaining but this is hard and so frustrating for me.There are so many ways that i can improve my husbands quality of life but he wont let me and wwe are both suffering..I have been on a loveseat(not a couch) since may because he sleeps in the den in a recliner..I have a hopital bed in the garage ,as well as a wheelchair and hoyer and he wont hear of it..he hasnt left this room since august...i think there are menatal issuses but he wont go back to clinic..he doesnt want to hear any more bad news..for us i belive ther are berathing issue as I am up every hour most nights to open window,turn off heat suction..etc..he needs mophine for pain and ativan for anxiety but wont take either..is about 80 % paralysed,cant speak..eating is scary and he has aspiration every time he drinks,,,he cant swallow his own saliva and chokes often,,,got to run he needs me ..more taker
debbie