Thank you kiara,
I am keeping my fingers crossed for you, hoping for something treatable.....you are so young and still have kids to raise, etc. Stay positive and hold out for the best, until you know for sure.
I have not been to Milano, but it is now on my list. I have not seen anything about Italy that I did not like, so far. We flew in and out of Rome on this last trip, but we didn't have time to sightsee....what a shame! Now, I have to go back to see the Coliseum and all of the cool things there. Venice is very cool and famous, but my dream vacation to Italy would be to spend some time in the Tuscany, Florence area, and do the wine tour, bikes or no bikes.
Hang tough,
Steve