Hi Denise, I'm 33 and have one son. I have similar symptoms from about 8 months, weakness in arms and hands with hands that want to curl closed...I also have developed weakness in my ankles and feet. I've already seen neuros and had clear MRI and EMG, last neuro says there's something wrong with me but we have to wait to have a diagnosis. If you want to talk I'm here. In my opinion first thing to do is going to your family doctor, he will be able to evaluate your situation and decide to refer you to a neuro.