Welcome to our "family". I am a 63 yr. old PALS who has lost most of my arm and leg strength and now my torso muscles are weakening. Like your mother, I refused to "give in" (called denial, I'm certain). Once I found this forum and saw how positive and engaging the people are , I realized my life can be so much better, easier and more comfortable if I accept the lot given to me and use all the assistive devices and help that is available. I now use a leg brace and a walker in the house, along with special computer arm rests, finger braces and am getting Dragon Speak software next week. I have a power wheelchair for outings. With the help of my life partner and a housekeeper I am able to continue operating my business (a bed and breakfast and am finding I am enjoying life so much more and my caregivers are too!I)'m here for either you or your mother (when she is ready to accept her Rx and find ways to adapt to the changes. Hugs, Diane