Hey Barbie, I know how you feel Barbie, I just want my old husband back, but that ain't happeneing..sigh. I clean houses, so you can imagine how tired I am when I get home. Usually 2 big ones a day, sometimes 3. Right now bruce stays by himself, but hospice aids come a few hours after I leave, I come home to feed him lunch, and then someone else from hospice comes a few hours later. The nurse, chaplain or social worker. That way someone is checking on him through out the day.