Janelle,
We are not currently renovating. This was 6 years ago. We bought a house and put in a bedroom bath on the first floor. At that time we widened all door ways, made the shower a walk-in with a granite bench and loads of grab bars. We also made the plumbing flexible for M's side. If and when he is in a wheelchair, we can take off the doors and feet to his cabinet and drop the sink down. Upstairs we have a guest suite with the idea that if we ever need live in help, they can have their own space in the house. His legs are what gave out along with swallowing, voice etc.
My husband does not cook, so the kitchen renovation was not particularly handicapped geared. Drawers are good. Microwave at chair level in a cabinet come to mind. I am sure there are others that can make better suggestions.
I have found a lot of the changes we made have been great for me too.
Good to hear from you.
Anna