I'm sorry to hear about your Father in law, stress on top of all of what's going on is overwhelming I'm sure. I am trying to do the same thing, I have seen quite a few specialists in the last month. I am going to a neurologist next week at Barrow Institute in Phoenix. I also am seeing a second Pulmonologist. I am hoping for a different perspective and some different testing. I also have my swallow study next week. No MRI yet, but I will ask the new Neuro to order it. I am finding I am still off balance, can't swallow well, short of breath as always too.
The muscle pain and cramping is constant, and I am finding that my hands just aren't as strong in most things now. I am hoping I get some answers soon. I absolutely understand, I am so glad you aren't willing to give up. I am about to get married next weekend and am trying my hardest to keep smiling and hoping. Sending my support from here Amy.