Aly, I'm back again. And your words have rung loud and clear in my mind. My sister had her diagnosis confirmed at the ALS Clinic in Vancouver this Tuesday. I read your story and the last thing I want is to try and control things and behave like a physician. You've taught me a lot, just in the few stories you've shared. Thank you. My sister in on line now as Alic. She is one of my 'friends'. Marta and Ken are helping us. Aly, I'm just wondering... you have been so helpful to me... would you be willing to befriend my sister? Her husband is trying to micromange everything. Aly, you put such sense into me - I'm hoping you can help my sister as well. If this is not a good time, it's O.K. I will be forever grateful for everything you have done for me. How are you doing? I want to be your friend and hear about the good things in your life. As well as the bad. Vona