whimsy_1971
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It hurts me that I have to ask this question, but you are the only people I have to talk with that I feel understands me.
I am finding myself becoming angry at my husband (Als). He seems to be fighting me every step of the way on some days. Instead of making things easier he seems to want to make it harder on me.
Last night I was trying to trasfer him to the toilet. I tried 2 times to pull him up, but his legs were giving out on him and I after making multiple transfers was getting weaker. By the end of the 2nd attempted his behind was coming close to the edge of his wheelchair seat. He then request that I roll him back into the dinning room and pull him to a standing position and reset him in his wheelchair and then go back into the bathroom and pull him up again to put him on the toliet. I had to leave him set there for a minute or so because I became so angry. Then he started grunting and saying he needed help. Sometimes I feel as if I could explode and it scares me. I dont want to feel this way. I dont know what to do.
I get so angry sometimes. I feel like he tries to make things more difficult for me, and then I become angry with myself because of how I feel. :neutral:
I am finding myself becoming angry at my husband (Als). He seems to be fighting me every step of the way on some days. Instead of making things easier he seems to want to make it harder on me.
Last night I was trying to trasfer him to the toilet. I tried 2 times to pull him up, but his legs were giving out on him and I after making multiple transfers was getting weaker. By the end of the 2nd attempted his behind was coming close to the edge of his wheelchair seat. He then request that I roll him back into the dinning room and pull him to a standing position and reset him in his wheelchair and then go back into the bathroom and pull him up again to put him on the toliet. I had to leave him set there for a minute or so because I became so angry. Then he started grunting and saying he needed help. Sometimes I feel as if I could explode and it scares me. I dont want to feel this way. I dont know what to do.
I get so angry sometimes. I feel like he tries to make things more difficult for me, and then I become angry with myself because of how I feel. :neutral: