Hi Julie, Welcome to our family. You should feel free to ask any questions you have, most likely someone here has encountered the situation. There is a cals subforum for caretakers ,an off topic area if you need to laugh, rant, or whatever.
There is a lot of I formation available. I would suggest you read the stickies at the top of the general discussion subforum. They are filled with a wealth of information.
Lastly, breathe deep and know we are all here for you. Steph