mrsack
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- Post Falls
HI all-
My husband Larry was diagnosed in September '10 with arm onset ALS. I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to how I can help maintain his independence. I have no problem doing anything he needs, but for his sanity, and sense of self-worth, I would like to try to adapt as much as possible so he can do for himself if feasible.
He is at the point where he needs help with getting dressed, and a regular coffee cup is just not an option if he wants to have anything left to drink by the time he gets it to his mouth. He has little dexterity his hands, and his arms and shoulders have wasted to the point where just lifting his arms is work. He has lost a lot of muscle structure in his torso, but is still able function pretty well as long as he doesn't listen to the 'snap, crackle, pop' every time he moves. He has begun to lose muscle mass in his legs, but not enough to affect his gate yet.
Any suggestions you may have will be greatly appreciated. He is a very proud, independent man who was always the one someone else asked for help. So he is not very good at asking for anything for himself.
MrsAck
My husband Larry was diagnosed in September '10 with arm onset ALS. I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to how I can help maintain his independence. I have no problem doing anything he needs, but for his sanity, and sense of self-worth, I would like to try to adapt as much as possible so he can do for himself if feasible.
He is at the point where he needs help with getting dressed, and a regular coffee cup is just not an option if he wants to have anything left to drink by the time he gets it to his mouth. He has little dexterity his hands, and his arms and shoulders have wasted to the point where just lifting his arms is work. He has lost a lot of muscle structure in his torso, but is still able function pretty well as long as he doesn't listen to the 'snap, crackle, pop' every time he moves. He has begun to lose muscle mass in his legs, but not enough to affect his gate yet.
Any suggestions you may have will be greatly appreciated. He is a very proud, independent man who was always the one someone else asked for help. So he is not very good at asking for anything for himself.
MrsAck