- Joined
- May 9, 2016
- Messages
- 1,529
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 06/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- MN
- City
- Minneapolis
Okay, I have had a full month past my husband's Dx of positive attitude. Yes, I know many PALS and CALS have had years of it. Thing is, who wants to be either one? We know the answer to that.
I was looking at pictures of myself as a kid, and I felt sorry for that little girl who grew up to have a husband with ALS and no treatment in site. Yup, blatant self pity - kinda. I don't feel so sorry for the adult I am today. People have worse to deal with, I just can't think of that now.
I need to rant, rave, stomp, cry scream. I need a night away from my PALS, away from work where I can do all that in peace. Yup, I want a whole night of freedom to just lose it in. Just parking the car somewhere is not working so well, and I am sort of in public so how can I really lose it?
Oh and don't get me started on some people I know. "Make me feel useful, I just can't read about this when there is nothing I can do" one said on my blog spot. No one asked you to read my blog spot, and why do I need to make you "feel useful". Not my job.
Then there was work. I am not gonna go there because my name and photo is on this, but at least one person infuriated me there.
I am okay - sort of about 85% of the time, but this crazy scream is welling up in me. I am tired of being brave and positive and having the perfect attitude. I need to lose it, and soon.
I was looking at pictures of myself as a kid, and I felt sorry for that little girl who grew up to have a husband with ALS and no treatment in site. Yup, blatant self pity - kinda. I don't feel so sorry for the adult I am today. People have worse to deal with, I just can't think of that now.
I need to rant, rave, stomp, cry scream. I need a night away from my PALS, away from work where I can do all that in peace. Yup, I want a whole night of freedom to just lose it in. Just parking the car somewhere is not working so well, and I am sort of in public so how can I really lose it?
Oh and don't get me started on some people I know. "Make me feel useful, I just can't read about this when there is nothing I can do" one said on my blog spot. No one asked you to read my blog spot, and why do I need to make you "feel useful". Not my job.
Then there was work. I am not gonna go there because my name and photo is on this, but at least one person infuriated me there.
I am okay - sort of about 85% of the time, but this crazy scream is welling up in me. I am tired of being brave and positive and having the perfect attitude. I need to lose it, and soon.