Hi Celticgirl, Please try to get your cals on the forum. We can offer him support, suggestions, a place to vent, or just an ear to listen. Through some very difficult times on our path, the group on here has been able to help me because they live it and understand the challenges. I may never meet anyone from this forum but they will be what gets me through this journey. Its hard for everyone involved in different ways. This forum can give your cals perspective. It is so important for him. If he is overwhelmed is there someone else who can provide care for you so you are safe? Thinking of you and sending a hug.