Kathi
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- Sep 26, 2010
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- PALS
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- US
- State
- AZ
- City
- Glendale
I hope this is the right place to vent...for no reason other than Im just sooooo .... I dont even know what word to use!
My almost 86 yo mom has ALS...and it makes me so sad to see her. I had to put her in a group home earlier this month becuz she fell 3 times in 2 wks, the last one being Christmas night. Hospice put her in a facility while I found a home. That alone was awful, I feel like I should be taking care of her here. But I cant take care of her 24/7 and work fulltime. I also have a 22 yo daughter that is learning delayed, so I have to take her to and from work, and did I mention I work 3rd shift, so people think I should be awake all day?! UGH!
My husband died 2 yrs ago suddenly, and I have never ever felt so alone and like I needed his support as much as I do now! He would be so much help with my mom.
How do you guys do it that take care of your loved ones 24/7? My mom has a feeding tube, cant talk, and now her legs and arms are giving out. It hurts so much to see her like that.
I dont usually have these emotional breakdowns...I stay pretty tough, maybe cuz of the work I do...but some days, like today HA! I have total breakdowns and just dont think anyone understands. I guess more of a feel sorry for myself time...cuz I know its worse on those WITH the disease...but watching it take her away from me like this is so hard!
Thats all...thanks for having this site...I have learned a lot from it...know somewhat better what to expect is to come...and thanks for having a page that says VENT so I could at least get this out!
God bless you all...I pray for a cure for this horrible awful awful disease someday!
Big hugs,
Kathi
My almost 86 yo mom has ALS...and it makes me so sad to see her. I had to put her in a group home earlier this month becuz she fell 3 times in 2 wks, the last one being Christmas night. Hospice put her in a facility while I found a home. That alone was awful, I feel like I should be taking care of her here. But I cant take care of her 24/7 and work fulltime. I also have a 22 yo daughter that is learning delayed, so I have to take her to and from work, and did I mention I work 3rd shift, so people think I should be awake all day?! UGH!
My husband died 2 yrs ago suddenly, and I have never ever felt so alone and like I needed his support as much as I do now! He would be so much help with my mom.
How do you guys do it that take care of your loved ones 24/7? My mom has a feeding tube, cant talk, and now her legs and arms are giving out. It hurts so much to see her like that.
I dont usually have these emotional breakdowns...I stay pretty tough, maybe cuz of the work I do...but some days, like today HA! I have total breakdowns and just dont think anyone understands. I guess more of a feel sorry for myself time...cuz I know its worse on those WITH the disease...but watching it take her away from me like this is so hard!
Thats all...thanks for having this site...I have learned a lot from it...know somewhat better what to expect is to come...and thanks for having a page that says VENT so I could at least get this out!
God bless you all...I pray for a cure for this horrible awful awful disease someday!
Big hugs,
Kathi