ok, so im obviously not a pals, but i want to share too...
when i first starting dreaming of my pals, he wasnt disabled at all. (ive never seen him in any other way than locked in so this was neat). But as the years came and went, the more i dreamt of him, the more he became disabled...
Most of the time though, he can still move a couple things, or he can talk (wish i had a way to record voices in dreams... wonder how close it is to what his real voice was).
I think some of it may have to do with where we are in acceptance. in the beginning, i so desperately wanted to know what his voice sounded like, or what he looked like standing up... so id dream about that.
And now, now that ive accepted it more, i have more realistic dreams about him... sometimes in the dreams we communicate telepathically... and we do that for real sometimes!