Ok, I literally had to grab onto the sides of my shorts or I was gonna jump across the table and throw a punch to his jaw that would knock him out of his chair!
I ran into one of my husband's relatives in a parking garage(I just finished hiking and was stopping to pick up my paycheck). Because I had nothing else going on, when she invited me walk across the street to have dinner withan elderly aunt and her husband, I had no excuses so accepted.
The aunt is in her late eighties and the couple are about 25 years older than me...67.
As conversation goes, Peter asks who i'm dating now. HUH!?WTF? I just politely respond "I am not in that space yet." Peter continues on about how my husband and I had such a wonderful relationship and why don't i start looking for another?WTF? Ok, I'll chalk it up to this guy being old and ditsy.
Then after other conversation Peter asked me who the guy was at the bonfire in October and that he seems concerned and noticed he was helping me. "Oh, that was my husband's best friend, they grew up together, worked together. yes, he's very helpful." (I might point out my husband died 7 days before that bonfire which is a huge annual event we put on for the community).
Peter then says,"Why don't you date him?""" WTF?
I reply," He's married, with kids, one is my godchild."
i'm so pissed at that point. He's still sitting next to his spouse and i'm not sure at what point he ever felt he had the right to ask me questions like that. douche bag.
Of course i'm invited to their party and he tells me I can bring a date....ARRGH!
No thanks. I'd rather pull ticks from the dog.