Jason's Dream
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- Sep 5, 2010
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- On My Own
Before Jason died, I was trying to think, prepare myself maybe, at life without him. (Lord knows, I was in for a root awakening.. but I digress.) Both of our children (still living) have birthdays in the winter, and with Jason's love for our children, I told him an idea I had. I told him, that on his birthday, I thought about celebrating with our children, by giving them outdoor play toys from us, a balloon release, and of course, chocolate cake or cupcakes, that type of thing. That seemed to make Jason happy and he seemed to like that idea. Well, in less then a week, my husband should be turning 39 on none other then memorial day (of all days). He was my hero, and definately his son's hero to be sure.
Well, in preparation for this day, I was going to various stores, pricing out the toys, so that when I am able to get someone to watch our little loves long enough for me to get the toys, I want to maximize my time and be able to get them quickly and efficiently, as I normally don't have alot of time by myself.
Well, I was at Walmart the other night, looking at a children's bike for William. But I couldn't seem to find any price tag on it. So I asked a sales associate, and she told me the price of the bike. She then began to be helpful, a bit too helpful.
She asked if she could wheel it up there for me. I explained that my van was the type in which, where you would put it, would sit right in front of William and so that wouldn't work. (Not knowing that I was referring to our mobility van.) Her next words out of her mouth still hurt, even though, I know there was no way for her to know any different. "Well, then, why don't you drop the kids off at home with Dadda and come back and pick it up real quick." she responded. "Um, Dadda's dead." I replied, and the look of shock, horror, and embarrassment on her face, told her heart that she didn't mean to, was sorry, did not mean to offend. I can understand her assumptions, a lady with 2 children, still wearing her wedding band, .. how was she to know? Still, it hurts every time I have to tell someone that my sweetheart is no longer by my side.
I've been missing him so very much, as we just passed the 2 year mark of losing our daughter's twin, and with my beloved's birthday coming up.
It still hurts so much to still get junk mail in his name, to get those collector calls asking for him like they could just wait and speak to him. How I long to say, "Just a minute" and go get him....
I miss you my love.
Well, in preparation for this day, I was going to various stores, pricing out the toys, so that when I am able to get someone to watch our little loves long enough for me to get the toys, I want to maximize my time and be able to get them quickly and efficiently, as I normally don't have alot of time by myself.
Well, I was at Walmart the other night, looking at a children's bike for William. But I couldn't seem to find any price tag on it. So I asked a sales associate, and she told me the price of the bike. She then began to be helpful, a bit too helpful.
She asked if she could wheel it up there for me. I explained that my van was the type in which, where you would put it, would sit right in front of William and so that wouldn't work. (Not knowing that I was referring to our mobility van.) Her next words out of her mouth still hurt, even though, I know there was no way for her to know any different. "Well, then, why don't you drop the kids off at home with Dadda and come back and pick it up real quick." she responded. "Um, Dadda's dead." I replied, and the look of shock, horror, and embarrassment on her face, told her heart that she didn't mean to, was sorry, did not mean to offend. I can understand her assumptions, a lady with 2 children, still wearing her wedding band, .. how was she to know? Still, it hurts every time I have to tell someone that my sweetheart is no longer by my side.
I've been missing him so very much, as we just passed the 2 year mark of losing our daughter's twin, and with my beloved's birthday coming up.
It still hurts so much to still get junk mail in his name, to get those collector calls asking for him like they could just wait and speak to him. How I long to say, "Just a minute" and go get him....
I miss you my love.