I received the bi-monthly journal from hospice today. It had a couple of really good articles about the grieving process. I found one on the net and thought you might like to have a read:
http://obit.newingtonmemorial.com/support/grief-words/helping-yourself-heal-when-someone-dies
http://obit.newingtonmemorial.com/support/grief-words/helping-yourself-heal-when-someone-dies