10steps
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2011
- Messages
- 140
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 04/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- MA
- City
- western
For those caregivers who were spouses with kids, I'm sure you can relate that in addition to caring for your spouse, there was always the overwhelming concern about the kids too and how ALS completely impacted them as well. ARGH! All so hard.
i've watched my oldest daughter learn and comprehend the depth and strength of compassion. She's learned a person's worth isn't necessarily based on achievement alone but rather commitment, caring, responsibility, community interaction, respect and dedication. She wants to be a doctor, to make a difference, as opposed to a stock broker lol.
My younger daughter ahd physical manifestations of stress. Those disappeared about 2 weeks after her dad passed. She continues to be amazing in school. She will be valadictorian or salutorian, of that I am sure. She takes pride in her job and assumes leadership roles in sports and community service. I am proud, she appreciates all she has despite what's been lost.
The 3 of us have a new bond, one where we are all sure to make time for each other, listen and support.
They are not perfect; however I am encouraged that they are positively moving forward - it can and does happen. The sun rises, sets and it can be good again.
i've watched my oldest daughter learn and comprehend the depth and strength of compassion. She's learned a person's worth isn't necessarily based on achievement alone but rather commitment, caring, responsibility, community interaction, respect and dedication. She wants to be a doctor, to make a difference, as opposed to a stock broker lol.
My younger daughter ahd physical manifestations of stress. Those disappeared about 2 weeks after her dad passed. She continues to be amazing in school. She will be valadictorian or salutorian, of that I am sure. She takes pride in her job and assumes leadership roles in sports and community service. I am proud, she appreciates all she has despite what's been lost.
The 3 of us have a new bond, one where we are all sure to make time for each other, listen and support.
They are not perfect; however I am encouraged that they are positively moving forward - it can and does happen. The sun rises, sets and it can be good again.