Jellycat
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jul 3, 2010
- Messages
- 443
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
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- IRL
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- Dublin
- City
- Dublin
Hello friends,
Thanks to this forum family I remained sane whilst my pals was living with als. I continue to come here and hope I can contribute something from time to time to pals and cals out there.
As some of you know my pals died in June. It seems to me that for cals, part of living with als is learning how to live after the death of the one we love. I wish it wasn't like that but it is.
I thought it might be good for those wanting to post about the time after to have a spot of their own on the site and suggested this to David, who has set it up. I guess now we need to see if anyone else feels like me and wants to use it.
The reason I thought it might be good to have a space on the forum was that not everyone may want to look at this section. I know for instance when my pals was alive I only visited the in memoriam section when it concerned someone I had come to know. Anything else was too painful. I don't want to foist this part of the cals journey on anyone. ( I still can't manage the DIHA - I think those of you who contribute so much there are saints!)
For the moment the section is called 'past caregivers (cals)' but I know if there's a better name out there that is changeable.
So, what do you think?
Thanks to this forum family I remained sane whilst my pals was living with als. I continue to come here and hope I can contribute something from time to time to pals and cals out there.
As some of you know my pals died in June. It seems to me that for cals, part of living with als is learning how to live after the death of the one we love. I wish it wasn't like that but it is.
I thought it might be good for those wanting to post about the time after to have a spot of their own on the site and suggested this to David, who has set it up. I guess now we need to see if anyone else feels like me and wants to use it.
The reason I thought it might be good to have a space on the forum was that not everyone may want to look at this section. I know for instance when my pals was alive I only visited the in memoriam section when it concerned someone I had come to know. Anything else was too painful. I don't want to foist this part of the cals journey on anyone. ( I still can't manage the DIHA - I think those of you who contribute so much there are saints!)
For the moment the section is called 'past caregivers (cals)' but I know if there's a better name out there that is changeable.
So, what do you think?