Cheriecook
New member
- Joined
- Feb 22, 2016
- Messages
- 3
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 02/2016
- Country
- US
- State
- NY
- City
- Peru
Hi all...this is my first post here. My beloved brother in law...my husbands oldest brother, has recently been diagnosed with bulbar onset ALS. He's been told that he probably had 6 months to a year to live. He is a silver star decorated vet of the Vietnam war (as a medic) and is simply the lifeblood of his entire family. He and his two brothers were given up by their parents as young children (he was 7, next was 4 and my husband was 3) to the social services system. Luckily they were kept together and he was absolutely the parental figure for the two younger boys. A close family...an exceptional man...of course we are devastated. What I want to know is what can we REALLY do for him that will matter. We have all the usual things in place...doctors, appointments and rides to same...we visit we talk...we try to share the best memories. What I'm really asking is: what are the things we can do for him that have made your lives truly better, more comfortable, more meaningful. I can think of no better group than this to ask.