Hi All -- I received my second opinion diagnosis yesterday -- the doctor is planning to perform another EMG and spinal tap, but said he thinks it's ALS (he's a specialist in the field). As the news was confirmed (again), my heart sunk. I'm 40 years old and have two little kids. I haven't stopped crying. My question -- how do you go on? How do you face something that will eventually take you away from those you love? I tried doing something mindless (looking on social media), but it didn't help. In fact, I thought in my head why the heck am I looking on this.
Hello There..I am so sorry to hear this news about being diagnosed with ALS. You asked a very valid question ..How do I go on? I am not the patient, my sweet husband is. he was diagnosed with Bulbar ALS in Nov of 2011. We were in a place of shock and fear! All I know is since that day to today..WE WILL NOT ALLOW ALS TO CONSUME US! We will not give it the Power..My darling Warren is still alive, and THANK GOD, still has a good quality of life..ALS IS different for each person..Yet I ask you to create a future for yourself to LIVE INTO! YOU ARE ALIVE NOW! YOu have two small children and I pray a family that will give you support emotionally. I ask that you consider asking yourself about all the things you have wanted to do in this lifetime.
Sit with family or friends or counselors to see how you could create accomplishing one or two of those items.
Take loads of photo's with you and your children.
Create recordings of your voice and tell all the people iin your life how much you love them.
Plan a trip..plan to go to the Opera, a basketball game, a concert, a movie..from small things like a walk in the park with your dog..to big things think Orlando..
I am making these suggestions as I am convinced that since I have created for my husband A FUTURE TO LIVE INTO..He has since he was diagnosed 3 and half years ago..His ALS is BULBAR and we were told the agressive one..whatever that means..
So what do I have planned as of today for him:-
Sanibel Island West coast of FL..7 days of fun in the sun..beach 20 steps from the condo door. That is Memorial Week this May.
Wedding celebration with family and friends end of July ..4 days..
Lewis Black one of his fav comedians Oct of this year.
The musical "Beautiful" Christmas weekend.
I have no idea if he will attend all these events with me..I pray with my whole heart he does..YET I AM COMMITTED THAT HE WILL..and we both have a future to Live into this year..
My question to you is :- What will you creaate for you?
keeping you in my heart and in my prayers