mndireland
Distinguished member
- Joined
- May 17, 2008
- Messages
- 123
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 10/2007
- Country
- IE
- State
- Ireland
- City
- Dublin
Hi all, Sadly I am writing today to let you know that my wonderful best friend and mother passed away a week ago today. She had been sick for a few days and very sleepy and drowsy, but I never thought this was going to happen. Over the last 17months with her battle with mnd I thought many times that she could die, but last week I really didnt think that was the case. When we woke I started washing her as normal but noticed she looked off colour and was very limp in my arms so I put her back in bed as I thought she was still too sleepy, as time passed I realised this wasnt the case.
Thankfully the hospice nurse came out and at first thought she might have days or weeks, after an hour she said it looks like hours, or maybe she'd last through the night, as she was telling me this, the bipap alarm was going, as we ran into her, she was leaving us. It happened that quickly. It was all soo shocking! My mam didnt want ventilation and so we stayed at home, she didnt want morphine and by the time the nurse was putting the drip on, mum had gone. She really went her own way. She couldnt speak that morning, but she didnt seem in any pain. She didnt want us crying around a bed for days, thats what she said, and thankfully that didnt happen.
Im sorry this message is a bit blunt and to the point but im still in a daze, everything feels like a dream, It just feels like she is gone out on one of her holidays, not like shes gone forever.
I will come back again in a few days and try to explain properly but for now, I really just wanted to let everyone here know how much I appreciated all the advice.
Mam, I will always love and miss you x x x x
Thankfully the hospice nurse came out and at first thought she might have days or weeks, after an hour she said it looks like hours, or maybe she'd last through the night, as she was telling me this, the bipap alarm was going, as we ran into her, she was leaving us. It happened that quickly. It was all soo shocking! My mam didnt want ventilation and so we stayed at home, she didnt want morphine and by the time the nurse was putting the drip on, mum had gone. She really went her own way. She couldnt speak that morning, but she didnt seem in any pain. She didnt want us crying around a bed for days, thats what she said, and thankfully that didnt happen.
Im sorry this message is a bit blunt and to the point but im still in a daze, everything feels like a dream, It just feels like she is gone out on one of her holidays, not like shes gone forever.
I will come back again in a few days and try to explain properly but for now, I really just wanted to let everyone here know how much I appreciated all the advice.
Mam, I will always love and miss you x x x x