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My pals has gone to be with god tonight. And I didn't understand or listen very well to the calls who've lost their pals. And I feel sick. I am only 33, he was fine a midnight and I went to bed was supposed to be up at 1am for morphine dose but something woke me straight up at 1240am and I flew into his room and I saw he was gone. He must have woken me cause he was very warm but no pulse. How will I tell my kids in the morning. They were not home when this happened. They were all at a sleepover at my moms. The worst was when the funeral home came I didn't want to see them take him. So I hid in basement and plugged my ears so I couldn't hear he loud footsteps.
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Oh Tracy....I'm am sending you a long warm hug. I am so sorry you are going through this and my heart breaks for you. Please know I will be thinking of you.
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Tracy, I''m so very sorry for your loss.

I don't think we are ever really prepared for it.

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I am sorry Tracy.

He is free of the physical pain and struggle of als.

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Tracy, many of us who have been through the same thing are literally crying with you now. We understand just how hard it is and how deeply it hurts. I have no platitudes to offer, but I will genuinely be praying for your peace and comfort. May the Lord's grace abound to you.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your children. He is free, but that doesn't mean you don't have pain in your heart. My thoughts are with you.

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Tracy, I am so sorry for your loss but happy that your husband is free of this disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I wish you peace.

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So sorry for your loss Tracy. I remember how difficult it was when they took my grandma when she passed. I am so sorry this is so hard. I will be praying for you and your family. HUGS!
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